a woman who would be in my लाइफ!

Tomorrow you may get a working woman,
but you should marry with these facts as well.

A girl, who is as much educated as you are;
who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is,
As human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost,
As much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people
Who love her, to adopt your home, your family, ur ways and even ur Family name,

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and
Cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are,
Maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a
Servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is
Learning just like you is as to what you want from her; and is clumsy
And sloppy at times and knows that u won't like it if she is too demanding,
Or if she learns faster than u;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even
Men At her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days
and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational
Jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise;

(But I don't mind if she does drink or smoke)

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just
Like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she,
Knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and
most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

Parikshit........

Some Cool stuff for your Nokia 6233.......

These are some applications which you can use with your Nokia 6233!!

Applications :
1. Gmail
2. Messengers (emsn, talknaout, live msn)
3. Remote desktop PC
4. Morange - email, sms, chat
5. Mobyexplorer - file manager
6. Opera mini7. Tone composer
8. Excel (spreadsheet)
9. Pocket
10. Pocket ProtectorNew Upload (Jan 15, ‘07)
11. Mobile Secretary (password manager)
12. Nokia 6233 sensor
13. Video Player (slightly functional)
14. Yahoo! Go 2.0 (still doesnt work for me.. maybe it will work for you)New Uploads (February 9, 2007:
15. BlueCam - use your cellpone as webcam (i don’t know how to use this)
16. Microsoft Word
17. MSI Java - mp3 player
18. Watchman - password manager
(I have downloaded a lot of applications but I’m only sharing what I think is useful and does not duplicate any existing feature on the nokia 6233.

Download here = http://www.box.net/public/dv24un3c10

Here are some more java applications for your phone.
1. File explorer - mobile file manager. Protects and hides files/folders
- I like using File Explorer than mobyexplorer coz the first asks for a password before you could open the program.
2. Lantern - use your phone as flash light (with different colors)
3. Light - same with lantern but only has one color (i use this at night)
4. Mobecode - password manager
5. Oxford English Minidictionary
6. Moby Today - it lets you see all your notes, tasks, reminders in your calendar for the day and for the coming week. cool one!
7. Money Manager - i use this to keep track of my monthly expenses.
Enjoy!

Down load here = http://www.box.net/shared/e58idfrbz1
Free mobile software downloads = http://gallery.mobile9.com/c/softwares/2/

Here are other tricks you can use with your Nokia 6233:

1. Press the # key to toggle between 2 profiles.
2. Use the headset for voice commands
3. Use it as a mobile notepad
4. Press call button to send a message
5. Insert a pictograph
6. View file info with one button
7. Stop music player with end call button

lets discuss each trick….

1. Press the # key to toggle between 2 profiles.
in standby mode (meaning no other applications running) press the # sign… after about 2 seconds… the profile will change….
Unfortunately, you can only change from 2 profiles.. General and Silent.

2. Use the headset for voice commands
I’m sure you’re familiar with the use of 6233 headset.
Press the button on the box where the microphone is locate (its the one you use to change radio channels or play your next song).. hold it until you hear a beep sound.. After that, say something (ummm.. a name on your phonebook or a profile) then you’ll here the phone say the items that matches your “search”.
I’ve used this neat trick several times now - changing from one profile to another.

3. Use it as a mobile notepad
Sometimes i tend to forget things.. numbers, names, items, etc.. so what i do is i write it down on my phone… not as a text message (sms) but in my notepad.
You see that phone can store up to 30 notes using the notepad application.. but each note can store a whole lyric of a song.. a poem or text up to 3,000 characters.
Its on my standby screen.. one click.. and its open!

4. Press call button to send a message
I’ve also used this on other nokia phones. instead of pressing the send button.. i just press the call button (the green button that you use to make or accept calls).
Its faster to use.

5. Insert a pictograph
one time, i was exploring my phone.. i saw the function to insert a small picture/graphics to something.. now i cant remember it… maybe you guys can check where it is… i tried reading the manual… but it doesn’t say anything about it.
message me if you’ve found it.. okies? thanks!

6. View whole filename with one button.(updated 11/3/07)
I’m sure you have files on your phone with long filenames. Well to view the whole name of the file, go to the file then press the pound sign (#).

7. Stop music player with end call button (updated 01/02/08)
When you’re playing songs, you don’t have to keep the music player open (to save battery). If you’re on standby mode and you want to turn off the music player, hold the end call button (the red button) for 2-3 seconds.

An Unconditional love!

Some time ago, a friend of mine punished his 4 year old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the small child tried to decorate a box to put under the tree. Nevertheless the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said "This is for you Daddy."


He was embarrassed by his earlier over reaction... He opened the box and his anger flared again when he found the box was empty.

Then he yelled at her:

DON'T YOU KNOW when you give someone a present there's supposed to be something inside of it???

The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and said,


Oh Daddy it's not empty, I blew kisses into the box, all for you Daddy.

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged her for forgiveness. My friend told me that he kept that gold box near his bed for years.

Whenever he was discouraged he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there. In a very real sense each of us has been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses.

There is no more precious possession anyone could hold.


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Why do u love me?

A beautiful explanation.....


Lady: Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?


Man : I can't tell the reason. But I really like you...


Lady : You can't even tell me the reason... how can you say you like me? How can you say you love me?


Man : I really don't know the reason, but I can prove that I love you.


Lady : Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend's boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!


Man : Ok..ok!!! Erm... because you are beautiful,


because your voice is sweet,

because you are caring,

because you are loving,

because you are thoughtful,

because of your smile,

because of your every movements.


The lady felt very satisfied with the man's answer.


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Unfortunately, a few days later, the Lady met with an accident and went into the coma stage.


The Guy then placed a letter by her side, and here is the content:

Darling,

Because of your sweet voice that I love you...Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.

Because of your care and concern that I like you...Now that you cannot show them, therefore I cannot love you.

Because of your smile, because of your every movement that I love you...Now can you smile? Now can you move?

No, therefore, I cannot love you.

If love needs a reason, like now, there is no reason for me to love you anymore.

Does love need a reason? NO!

Therefore, I still love you...And love doesn't need a reason

With love always,

Forever yours.


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Relationships are hard to handle......might even seem impossible at times.


There will be many fights and many quarrels,


many disagreements and many tears.....


The easiest thing would be to give up.


But if we spent half the energy we use in fighting with each other,


and spend that energy in fighting to keep the relationship strong, then that is love……


Remember, in a relationship, giving up is not the solution Disagreements, fights and quarrels will always be there.


But you must always fight harder to stay together.


Some fights are truly worth fighting!

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What is love for me?

I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with some water and held it before me, and said this: "You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love.

" This was how I saw it: As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds.

This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love ... they try to posses it, they demand, they expect ... and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you. For love is meant to be free,

you can not change its nature.

If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings.

Give and don't expect.

Advise, but don't order.

Ask, but never demand.

It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice.

It is the secret to true love.To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring."

- By Swami Vivekanand.




ok that sounds philosophical but still what's love (Practically)?

Is it the heart missing beat at his sight, or is it the smile that becomes difficult to disguise when she/he looks your way. Is it the constant restlessness that one experiences, or is it in the peace knowing that she/he is there? Is it in the first kiss or wishes that time stood still..
This is not love; this is something like it....a beginning perhaps.

Is it the constant jealousy, a desire to posses and be possessed or a feeling of constant need, driven primarily for your own sense of completion? A feeling where insecurity becomes so significant that it demands to compromise on the basic value system..

No, this is definitely not love, and if you see these signs, then Run....yes Run away from it.

Love begins with integrity and that too first and foremost with oneself.

You can only love someone else with utmost sincerity if you are peace with yourself. Don't get into love thinking it will mend you if you are broken, it can heal you sometimes, but never seek outside for what you lack within.

Love is giving yourself to someone with an expectation that they will take care and respect you in ways you do it for yourself.

To Love means to live with utmost and complete honesty.

Loves means to Liberate in its truest sense.


Above all, Love is not blind. It has eyes, which are called friendship and trust. If either one gets hurt, love gets damaged.


The most difficult and exciting step which everyone has faced through countless centuries is confessing this beautiful feeling. Yes, fear of rejection/loss will overpower you, but here I say, no matter what and yes, no matter what happens always confess.
If you really love someone, the most honest thing to do is to confess, don't worry what will happen or how things will go, just confess.
Yes, it takes lots of guts and courage, but sometimes you just have to do what one has to do.


So, what about true love, if there is such a kind?

True love is love, love is love, simplest form, love never leaves, love stays...it grows and with time it matures.

Now you will ask, what does love demands?

Love means giving space; it allows you to be you, you to grow, like a line in a song said, if you bridle the horses, its spirit dies. Love is to set free, Love is Friendship, love is Peace and Love is the Highest and Purest Commitment of Body and Soul.

Love can never be casual and love can never be cheap. Fast entries and fast exits are just means of degrading an already low self-esteem.

Does, love happen more than once?

Yes, it does.
Romantic movies which says that true loves comes once in a lifetime are just good dialogues in what possibly could have been bad movies.

Does love at first sight exist?

Love takes time, what happens at first sight is unbeatable chemistry at play. You may get totally smitten, but be patient. The madness and the craziness are very real, but it last as long as it can...to make a serious relationship, friendship is required.

And while following the course of love, if you get hurt, trust me it is OK, yes it is and everything will be OK. All one need to do is to pick up the pieces. Moving on is a very difficult task and here time will only help, but eventually everything and everyone gets healed.


Like someone said, Where there is great love, there are miracles. It is capable of giving courage even to the most weakest of soul.Love also means to take risk.

In the end loves makes life worth living. So by all means do LOVE :)

Passing thought ... Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take; but by the moments that take our breath away.


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Looking for love?

Or, more precisely, looking for someone to love you? Not found one, yet? Still searching patiently?

No, I'm not starting a dating agency or a marriage bureau. That is not the way to find love, anyway. You can find people, but not love. Two different things.

For all of us who think love can be searched for and found: please think again. When you say you search for love, don't you realize you're accepting the fact that you lost it? If you lost it, doesn't that mean you had it at one point? If you already had it and lost it, what makes you think you're going to find it now and keep it? If you know how to keep it, then why did you lose it to begin with? OK, so you lost it, learnt a lesson and now you know how to keep it? But how will one lesson learnt apply to all future prospects of love? Unless of course you intend to love the same person(s) again. Confusing? No? Good. Read on.

You could contradict me saying searching for love doesn't mean I lost it, maybe I'm searching for the first time! Then how, please, would you know when you find it? Do you even know what you're looking for? If you do know what love is, if you do know it is love when you find it, then doesn't that naturally mean you've known it before? And so, since you're looking for it now, doesn't that mean you lost it previously? Which brings us back to lost love.

Point I'm trying to make here is Don't go around telling the world you're looking for love. You don't find love, love will find you if you give it a chance. Love will enter your heart if your heart is capable of loving. Only one who knows to love can know love. You have to love to receive love.


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a punk ..teenager ..relationships..

An attitude of rebellion against tradition.-Punk

People think being in twenties is confusing, but I think the questions one faces at 20 makes being a teen look as simple as peeling an orange.

I have had the coffee-pizza thing with friends who are girls, but in some years, I will need to find a girl whom I understand and who understands me and decides much more than which pizza to order. And finding her is not easy, considering that I think girls are indirect, complicated, get angry too fast and ask questions only to hear the answers they want.

I'm very broke,don't be surprised,I'm used to it.I really have to learn how to manage whatever little money I have. Ooh, I've been doing a lot of thinking in the sphere of Relationships and so on. Does that count? I think it does. But, then again, I haven't come to any major conclusions. In fact, I haven't even come to a basic conclusion: do I or do I not want to be in a relationship right now? The part of me that's all lonely and has no one to cuddle with says yes, of course I do. But then my practical side (I have a practical side. Who knew?) takes over and I think of all the work I have to do.

Maybe I am growing up.I am 20 n I think this is the decent age for u know relationships and stuff... Oh, wait, maybe that means I'm ready to date after all. Whatever. I guess, yes......

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Perfect Love..........

Perfect love is not receiving, it's giving and forgiving. .............................
Perfect love is not red roses on Valentine's Day; it's a rest 364 days of knowing you love someone........
Perfect love is not phone calls or stolen kisses, it's the silent smile in the memory of your sweet heart.......
Perfect love is not a grand wedding, it's spending a lifetime together
Perfect love is not fight, kiss and make-up again, it's loving the one who annoys the hell out of you.........

Love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking together in the same direction.Love is a promise, love is a souvenir, once given, never forgotten, never let it disappear.
Love isn't just about liking the person you see before you; it is about accepting the things you dislike in him/her as well.


(That’s how it should be but there is nothing perfect in this universe! Does this mean we stop looking for perfect love the Point here I am trying to make is "We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love".)

And I rebelled. Again. And again...

It was an assertion of what I believe is right. And surely, superstition must be wrong.

Why must people go out in search of solutions to their problems to unconvincing pandits, tantriks and even vaastu experts? And bind their happiness to little tricks that these 'well wishers' hand out like a 2-minute noodle recipe?
So astrology is a science and I understand and believe in negative and positive energies, but surely there's more to solution-finding than all this. Why, when you have exorcised that evil spirit in the house, do superstitious people find no peace? Perhaps, they forget that they too have a role to play creating problems for which they seek solutions.I dont believe in vaastu, even in pandits and poojas.You can't just sit happy and let a hired pandit perform a ritual and think you've done your bit to make things better. It's a mind game. You have to believe things will be better. You have to believe in yourself. And that someone up there is listening to your prayers.

Does superstition really make you so blind to reason?!
Belief vs Superstition - I'll rebel each time I'm coerced to fall in line with what I don't believe in.

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Why a Rebel?.........

I Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it. I Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumored by many. I Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in mine or yours religious books.

I Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of your teachers and elders. I Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations. But after observation and analysis, when you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of one and all, then I accept it and live up to it." If this shows rebellion in me then let it show.....................

Gone are those pretty old days.......

I read it somewhere and I thought this guy has stolen my thoughts.......hey, dude we are in the same boat....

My childhood was so much of fun. I vividly remember those rainy days, when I hugged my mother tightly during sleeping listening to all the stories told by her. Now, I am sharing a flat with my friends though it is house here, but then it is just a house, not a home. My parents are pretty far away from me now. I have a cell phone to talk to them everyday, but then I really miss those dinners which I had with my family everyday. I could easily afford to taste all the different cuisines these days, but the best of food there, lack the love and affection which is present in the food prepared by my mother.

The couple of hundred bucks that u save for a long period just to give a treat to your friends in the road side chat shop can never give the pleasure even after spending a few thousand bucks these days.
Everyday I meet new people, but then I long ceased to make a new friend.
It's true that I have a lot of things now. I have a nice bed, but no time to sleep. money, but no friends to spend it with. The latest branded clothes spyker, pepe jeans, but a worn out body. Quite a few to flirt, but no one to love. A confident demeanor, but a reluctant and apathetic mind. Full of rain, but no sunshine even in the farthest distance.

I have decided to come out of this false fantasy, even if it is at the expense of losing the tap of the profession. I am going to again enjoy my life with that child in me.